013: Keshigirl

This week we are joined by the ever-elegant and gorgeous Keshi from KeshiGirl. Her dulcet tones and sweet stories of boys, friends, family and food create a wonderful and admirable picture of a strong woman who values the good and simple things in life.

Her blog is a colourful diatribe of her life in Sydney, Australia and feels more like you're catching up with your best friends for a great all-night chat than reading a blog.

BV: Keshi, thanks so much for taking the time to have a talk with me. It's great to have you here at BloggerView. I love the style of your posts when you get on a roll. It seems you cover many topics in the one post and aren't afraid to talk your mind however long it may take to get there. Do you think about the structure of your posts before you write or are you more of a 'go with the flow’ girl?

Thanks Pete, it’s my pleasure to be here. I don’t really think about the structure of a post. I just write whatever comes to my mind. Often I write about something that took place recently in my life or a topic that I’d love to get feedback on.

But generally it’s my conversations with the walls so, I’m pretty unstructured and because of that I can sound quite wayward sometimes… he he. To me blogging isn’t about being ‘nice’ or seeking ‘popularity’. It’s about giving a voice to my heart so Keshi tells it like it is. :)


BV: It seems like you have built a very strong community around your blog. Can you tell us how important it is to have people around you (be it online or close in a geographic sense) that support you and keep coming back to your blog?

I have a pretty busy blog I know! I value people and their opinion a lot. I like feedback because I believe it teaches you new things and makes you think in a different angle – it sets you free from your comfort zone. All in all, there’s power in knowledge and that knowledge comes from connections. I value people online or not, for without people you’d be nothing, no matter how great a person you are.


BV: Being the very attractive girl that you are, no doubt you get your fair share of attention from the opposite sex. In fact, I've read a few posts where you tell some great stories about the dumb shit us blokes can do in the face of a pretty girl. What makes boys do dumb shit?

Haha… thanks for the compliments Pete! I think boys are generally more impulsive than girls are. It’s good in a way because it really may get them what they want. Blokes take action spontaneously when they see something they like. In that process they can make a fool of themselves, depending on the individual, that is. But as long as it isn’t a tasteless act, it’s OK. I love witnessing blokes in LOVE :). Sometimes dumb can be beautiful.


BV: Music plays a very big part in your life. You talk frequently about your love of music in your posts. Can you share a time where music has inspired you so much you posted about it?

Yes, you’re absolutely right there! MUSIC is what’s running through my veins and keeping me alive. If not for music, I seriously believe I wouldn’t be here today. Music has retained my sanity on many occasions and it is the only unconditional friend I have ever known. Therefore I dedicated this post to music a long time go:
http://keshigirl.blogspot.com/2005/09/introducing-my-best-friend.html

That post explains how I feel about music and how my life has a deeper meaning because of it.


BV: You say in your blog that the walls can sometimes have better listening powers than anyone else. Why is that?

Simply because the walls aren’t human. Humans tend to judge you even before you have finished telling them your story. They question you, belittle your conscience, sometimes they just hear; not really listen, and they misunderstand you half the time. Don’t get me wrong, I aint saying all humans are like that, but most are. However, the walls; they just listen… and after you have told them your story, they are still neutral towards you and I like that quality in them. I then leave them with a feeling of being understood and a weight lifted off my chest... not with an additional load.


BV: I love your rantings about the, as you say, I-think-it's-cool-to-be-an-empty-head trend that is all over the media with the likes of Paris Hilton, Lindsay Lohan etc. If these girls shouldn't be in the limelight, who do you think should be? What would they wear? How would they act? What would they look like?

Well, first of all they are in the limelight for a reason. People who become stars for all the wrong reasons are a scary thought but unfortunately that’s the way show business works these days. These girls are bad role models to younger women of today but then again, it all depends on the individual, doesn’t it. There’s the sane girl who knows what she’s doing and then there’s the insane girl who has no clue. So in the end you shouldn’t really blame the stars for your actions but yourself.

Who do I think should be in the limelight if not for Paris Hilton kinds? Well how about Audrey Hepburn? Because she was truly beautiful on the inside as well as outside. That’s what women need to realise… that your beauty doesn’t come from the clothes you wear or the cars you drive or the number of men you sleep with or the bone-protruding body you aim to get... true beauty comes from within your soul and then the rest shall follow.


BV: I've asked this of a few people here at BloggerView and I always enjoy hearing their answers. What's the thing you love most about the people that comment on your blog?

I like the diversity of their roots which in return contributes to the diversity of the thoughts on a topic. I have a huge number of commentors from all over the world, and that results in a very sacred knowledge/values repository. And of course I get to make friends with all kinds of people from around the globe, without having to travel… that’s the ultimate gift I can ever receive right? :) I realise that there are so many beautiful hearts in this world… that gives me hope and has retained my faith in humanity amidst the chaos that this world is in today.


BV: Well, that's it. Keshi, thanks again for taking the time to answer some of my questions.

Thanks Peter, it’s been a pleasure talking to you!

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